The value of friendships

The value of friendships

I came across a video where this Youtuber was crying her eyes out saying that she felt so alone and that she had no real friends and that people only come when they need comfort or something. I could totally identify myself with her! I’m so over people who pretends to care for you only to get what THEY want, it can either be emotional support, physical approval, your kindness, economic advice/support etc. When they are on their feet or found something “better” they throw you away like yesterday’s garbage! I mean: ARE YOU FOR REAL?!

Did I waste ALL my time on these people and gave them nothing but love and support! Yes, people are egoistic, we all are, that’s how it is but we all do it differently. I care too much for people because it makes me feel good about myself (so I’m egoistic in my way) but then we have those who get what they want and go for the other shiny objects even though the current one is more valuable, yeah yeah with the metaphors. The truth is, I’m used to these people since I was a teen and they will always be there and I think we all have at least one person who’s been treating you like that. I usually don’t care but it gets personal when it’s someone close to you who act like you don’t exist and I’m sure most of them don’t mean it because you’re not on their mind but stop saying: “You’re my best friend” and reply on my text message 5 days later when I needed their friendship the most when I was feeling sad and alone! Of course I forgive people but it doesn’t mean that what they are doing is ok! I always have time for people I care deeply for even if I’m studying or working but yes we all have times we just can’t, which I totally understand but to see them online ALL the time, updating, posting pictures, calling other people when they saying that they fell asleep… stop with the bullshit then!

I rather have someone saying to my face: I don’t need you rather than them behaving like that! It’s so immature and I’m getting closer to 30 so yeah I’m over it! I don’t need people treating me like that or being fake! I’m a loyal friend but I guess it’s time to be more ego and care for those who makes the effort and focus on MY happiness. I’m not their shrink and listen to their stuff for HOURS just to make them feel better and then getting the “silent treatment” haha.

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How do you guys handle this kind of situations and stay positive? Sorry for tonight’s rant!

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Coldplay at Friends

Coldplay at Friends

Last Sunday, my sister and I had that chance to see Coldplay live at Friends Arena in Stockholm ! I mean OMG! They were AMAZING and the show was magical and the concert was sold out so we were lucky. We arrived at the arena around 7 PM to see the opening acts like Alessia Cara and Birdie. It was so pretty with the blinking wrist bands that we got (see the video)! I will say that it was the best concert I have been to and they were so good! Thanks for a great show Coldplay. Haha it was less fun to go home with ALL those people heading the same way as us, took over one hour to get home!

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Friends Arena

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Alessia Cara live

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Birdie who looked like Sansa Stark haha

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COLDPLAY

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Hello Chris Martin

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Looks like a starry night ❤

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