Wow you guys!
Sometimes good things happens when you least expect them! I was unsure if I wanted to write this post because I don’t want to jinx things and get my hopes up but then again I can’t control destiny, faith or whatever it is called!
As many of you might have already read my previous post about my “love life” and guess what? Yesterday, I had my second date with Daniel. We decided to grab dinner in town so I met him around 5 PM at city centre where he greeted me with a hug and asked how things were. We went to this sushi place and started to talk about food and easy topics, he was laughing at me that I had difficulties to eat with chopsticks which ended up with me eating with a fork haha. It was really nice and causal, after maybe two hours we decided to go and we were gonna pay. I was looking for my wallet, he was like: No! It’s on me! I was like: Are you sure?
*side note: Previous guys that I have dated have been cheap and only bought drinks but never dinner or other food, and not to generalize Swedish people but most are known to be cheap minded.
Anyways he paid for dinner and I said that next time was on me since he paid also on the first date too and he was like sure! He was a total gentleman which I’m not used to! After he was like yeah I can show you around the other side of Uppsala if you want and I was like sure! So we kept on talking and he was like you wanna see where I live so we went there and sat in the living room and I’m not kidding, we talked for HOURS about politics, philosophy, psychology, history, addictions, super heroes to Disney movies. I have never met such a smart guy in a long time and he doesn’t have a degree but he is passionate about learning new things and challenged my mind in a stimulating way. Over and over again he was like; sorry that I bore you out! I just replied: Are you kidding me? I love talking about deep stuff and total nerd too when it comes to documentaries. Then he told about some personal stuff too and I felt honored that he felt comfortable to talk to me and found me interesting. Poor guy was so sleepy that he had like four cups of coffee to keep awake. We watched a documentary and a short movie. It was super nice to just chill and hangout. I really like him and he was really sweetheart towards me and he said that I was beautiful and interesting girl and that we are taking things slow. I have the full understanding of things now since he explained his situation so I was just over reacting in my head for nothing, sure he sucks in contacting but he still wanted to see me and put effort to make a great day. No matter what happens, I have HUGE respect for this guy since he turned his life around and now helps others to do the same. He inspired me!
I was unsure at a point if we were gonna see each other again till he said: Remember you owe me dinner 😉 and when he kissed me goodbye at the door and wished me luck for my assignment. I mean my heart melted a bit! Sure, we are not a thing to this point and I have no romantic feelings for him yet but I like him a lot and he is the best guy I have dated (sure he is not perfect) but he made me happy ! For that I’m thankful! So yeah! I have no clue what will happen after, like I said, I don’t want to jinx it or being too optimistic, if it’s meant to be we will meet again. I need to learn to relax and stop over analyzing!
Thought that I would share this story with you before I head to bed! Good night ❤
– Hugs x heart –