Well guys it happened…
This Friday I went on my first date after the breakup (exact 6 months later) with a guy who lives in the same town as me. We had plans to meet up after school but he texted me that he was not in town and hanging out with the guys, that he was coming back later in the evening. I was very sceptical if he was going to show up since that town is over an hour away and bro code is important for him but that would be really strange since he was the one who wanted to meet me and the one who gave me his number.
I talked with my best friend for her opinion and she said that I should give it a shot and give him a chance. We were going to meet in the city centre where there were lots of people on a Friday evening! I also had a plan B to get away in case it didn’t feel good or if it was too dull. So later that day I waited for him at the meeting place, he called me and said that he was going to be 5 minutes late because of the bus, which was fine. I was really surprised that he actually decided to meet me. He finally arrived and greeted me, OMG he was looking really good and totally the type of guy I used to have a crush on when I was younger but those popular hot guys NEVER looked at me. I have mentioned earlier but cute guys with brown hair and blue eyes are my kryptonite. I was waiting for Ashton Kutcher to scream: You just got PUNK’D bitch! haha
Anyways, we went to a place where we just talked and he was super down-to-earth kind of guy, chill, ambitious and funny. I liked his aura and it felt good to talk to him and felt the instant connection. He was a real talker like me so it was easy to have a conversation with him and he found it really interesting to hear about my studies and he also shared what he liked. I found out that he was a sci-fi/anime fan (like my ex haha) so we started to talk about Star Wars movies. I think he was surprised that I actually saw those movies and being a “nerdy” girl but he seemed to like it. He gave me those looks through the evening. We started to head home and well let say that he also thought that we clicked really well and found me sexy and interesting… and yes there were lots of kissing involved haha
Gosh! Feeling like a school girl who just found out the cute guy likes her! It was really great evening and I was really happy to give it a shot no matter what happens! If I have to be honest, he was a much better version of my ex, kinder and had a positive mindset and so damn cute personality. He was exactly what I needed in order to really move on and give me hope that there are guys that find me attractive and that they like me for the way I am. You may wonder if I will meet him again? I don’t know to be honest! We are both very busy people and I don’t have too high hopes, he seemed to like me but for me this was nice either way! Of course if it’s mutual I would give it another shot to see him again but you know how guys are right and it’s not like he has texted or anything haha… but I’m still happy!
I wanted to share this “news” with you guys since you guys are my friends and you have been with me through this journey, the ups and the downs. The moral of the story… my ex is out of my head and I’m officially moving on!
For those who are going through a heartache/breakup, I just want to say that if I can get over the guy I loved with all my heart so can you! Yes it takes time to get there, yes there will be months of crying, yes it feels impossible but you must have inner strength and NEVER give up! Don’t let him/her get to you! You are worth much greater things in life and you will find someone who will treat you better. Yes there are better people than your ex! Just have a positive and healthy mindset and put your happiness and yourself first!
Love you guys ❤
– Hugs x heart –